• The Gift of BTS

    On New Year’s Eve 2017 my 11 year old middle child found BTS. Never one to shy away from things unique and different, she entered 2018 and the BTS rabbit hole full throttle. Watching from an acceptable mom-distance, I tried not to cramp her style, but asked her to play songs as we traveled that summer. She’d talk excitedly about the entire group, her bias V, and the music. When BTS’ October 2018 show at Citifield was announced, taking place the day before her 12th birthday, I knew going to the concert together would be the perfect gift for her. What I didn’t know, was that I’d receive a gift…

  • A day may come when we lose, but it is NOT TODAY!

    Hi, I am a 51 year old mother of two, a 23 year old son and 13 year old daughter.   Both of them do not like K-pop; however, in May 2018, my son, Caleb, introduced me to K-pop as a joke.  He knows I typically do not like pretty boy bands, but I used to love N-Sync for their dance moves.  I guess he thought maybe I’d like Big Bang. I didn’t.  They were too much for me.  Then, he showed me BTS’s video, “Blood, Sweat, and Tears.”  Meh.  They’re cute and can dance really well, but they look snobby and serious. I don’t like them.  He gave up.  Fast…

  • Lost and Found

    At first I was a little (ok, very) embarrassed that I was becoming obsessed with a K-pop boy band. It felt like I was regressing into my teen years and that was somehow wrong.

  • BTS, my parenting tip…

    I came to know BTS this year. 2021. At a time when we are all confined in our homes. I was scared of the virus. Scared of the vaccine. Scared of the future. Scared even of the outside air. I was particularly scared of showing my own fears too much because I have a little soul who draws strength from me. He is scared, too and worried about not going to school, not seeing his classmates, not playing outside. I searched for ways how to teach him how to be brave, how not to give up easily, how not to be overcome by fears. As a modern mom, I used…

  • BTS, the heroes of my life

    BTS are my heroes, they saved my life and made me happy again. They made me overcome my sadness and loneliness I'm so thankful to them. I really wish they stay happy and healthy forever! I purple you guys, forever 🙂

  • BTS Gave Me Back My Smile

    I’m not diagnosed with any mental illness but I’ve been stressed and hurt by people around me which make me sad and depressed. Even the very person close to me is giving me a hard time. This has made me really sad. It makes me cry all the time and the smile has left me. I’m blessed that I have four sisters and friends whom I talked to but it wasn’t enough. I still feel empty, alone and sad. Work and home are my struggles till this day. My sister who is a BTS ARMY introduced BTS to me when she was about to watch their Paris concert in October…

  • A Family Affair

    Non-linear. Maybe I went a bit too literally with this headline. But that’s my story. I’d never thought I would fall for a boy group in my 50’s, and I was trying to resist for quite some time …

  • BTS saved me through the pandemic!

    Music has always been an important part of my life. I was always in the choir and I played the flute for about 10 years through school. My first “group crush” was The Monkees! Yes, I know, most of you are asking who? My name is Vickie, and I am 66 years young. I first saw BTS when they were very young. I don’t remember what show they were on or what song they sang and danced to, but I remember I liked them! But as life goes, mine got unbelievably busy with my mother’s illness and baby grandchildren. Somewhere in there, along with my family, I started listening to…

  • BTS expanded my heart

    I wanted to write something deeper, more well thought out but kept stumbling with what I wanted to say so am just going to write from the heart. As relatively new Army, and a much, much older Army, sometimes I feel I have to justify when I discovered BTS, like I am penalized for not having found them earlier. Sometimes, but rarely I believe, people come into your life that make you shine. They make you feel more loving and giving, towards yourself and others. They make you feel joyful and euphoric and good about yourself and your world. That is what BTS did for me. I honestly can’t pinpoint…

  • My Journey

    InDec 2017 I had a car accident that put me in the hospital  for almost a year. I found BTS browsing through youtube. I enjoyed their music during long physical therapy sessions. While in my bed I watched Run episodes and other videos. They made me laugh and their message helped me realize I was going to be ok and to look to the future that I almost didn’t have. They have given me a renewed sense of self. I don’t think they know how many people they have touched  

  • When you need them most

    I am a mom, wife, daughter, a former environmental chemist, a nurse and ARMY.  In 2014 I started watching Kdramas based on a random google recommendation.  I loved the OSTs but just did not get into the Kpop scene or like any certain groups.  In 2016 my son and I traveled to Korea for 2 weeks to do a Kdrama tour – Seoul, Jeju, Busan. We ate tteokboki, rode bikes in Hangang Park, went in Namsan tower, all the typical Kdrama touristy things.  Fast forward to Hwarang and something about It’s Definitely You caught my ear.  I added it to my playlist, started listening to more Kpop OST’s.  In the…

  • Finding my Light

    I am not talented in the field of writing, so I will just try and say this how it is. Often, you don’t know what you need the most in life until you find it and try to imagine life without it. I had known about BTS for at least a few months before I became an ARMY, but it was only mild interest and recognition of the name. I never bothered doing any research on them and stuck with my own mix of pop and bollywood music for awhile. Then one day, I stumbled upon a Youtuber’s reaction video to the Blood, Sweat and Tears MV and found that…

  • Nothing special, but there’s only 1 of me.

    My story starts with just an average day channel surfing. I came across BTS performing, I didn’t know who they were at that time. It’s funny to write this but I honestly can’t remember which one caught my eye first, but not because of thier Good looks but it was as if “we” had made eye contact.  Lol crazy I know. Fast forward and I started off slow into the rabbit hole. Music videos, translations and all that comes with them. I came to understand the message they were speaking. For me it was like getting  reacquainted with my best friend. That one who always had good advice when you…

  • How BTS found me.

      My life could be it’s own book or a Lifetime Channel movie. Things started out well, parents divorced when I was ten & we moved in with my grandparents. The years living with my grandparents were pretty great, but after my grandmother died, my mother moved us to Florida and my life became a sad drama. I ended up marrying the wrong guy for the wrong reasons and it ended in divorce. I’ve been single for the past 17 years. A little over 3 years ago, I had been following another kpop group but heard BTS was going to be on the AMAs so I watched it. And that,…

  • NEW LIFE WITH BTS

    Hey!! I want to share how BTS changed my life So, to start, I’ve to tell you about a little history of my life. I really hope you can read this, because this memory is the most precious thing I have. I am 25 years old and since I was 3 months old I was diagnosed with atopic dermatitis. That’s is a health problem that totally destroys the self-esteem of all carriers ’cause we always have a scaling body and wounds, and in my case, it mainly affects my face. So throughout my life I had to deal with the fear of people seeing me in times of crisis ’cause…

  • Army with LUV

    Beginning of 2019 was a rough year for me. I was going through job transitions and struggling mentally with who I was as a person and where I was going in my early 20s. I remember seeing a post somewhere of Boy With Luv and I decided to check it out. I have no idea what it was but I saw those bright smiles and happy colors and I instantly fell in love. Suddenly, all the darkness I had seen for the past few months in 2019 was just gone and I remembered just singing to that song day after day after day until I discovered more of BTS. Well,…

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